Now, I am getting ready for Tony and Colette's wedding. I am cooking for 200 one night and 50 the next day, but this will be in Washington state far a way from my kitchen...oh dear.
Then about 2:00 AM one night (when I couldn't sleep for thinking of all the things that I have to do) it occurred to me.
That way when I get there the hardest part is already done.
After my mom’s death, I was really surprised by how much I
missed her. When my father passed away it was such a relief as he had had
cancer for a third time, it had gone into his bones and he was in such pain
that it was pure relief and happiness when he was gone.
I did not miss him so much but still hear his voice
constantly telling me things, guiding me, teaching me.
However, with my mom, I guess because I had cared for her
for so long, it was as if we had both been mothers to each other. I would walk
by her room and look in to see how she was…and then I would remember, oh, she’s
Now, when we went to Padre Island, I asked my friend, Kathy,
to come stay with my mom. She had been slowly going downhill all year, but when
I came back from Padre Island, she seemed especially weak. I thought maybe
Kathy had been too soft with her and had not pushed her enough to walk or to do
others things. (She, herself, told me that Kathy was much nicer to her and not
a big meanie like me…)
However, after having been at home for a while, I realized
that she simply did not have the strength anymore to do certain things.
Oh my goodness. It has been months since I blogged, but my
life took me on a roller coaster ride and it hasn’t paused long enough for me
to get off and write about anything. We went to Padre Island, Texas for several
days in August and had a wonderful time.
When we came back home, school was starting and there were
so many things to do to prepare. Also, my mother had been getting weaker and
weaker and was requiring more of my time. Then she became bedridden and I
thought she had just gotten the flu or something.
Papi made us all go down to the garden one evening this past week. We all complained and didn't want to go, but then when we got there and started pulling weeds something happened.
First of all, there is such a sense of satisfaction when you start to see the ground (not weeds) and start to see an area clean.
Second, it soothes the soul to put your hands and feet into the dirt.
Third, it was like a treasure hunt because we began to find onions and potatoes we had missed from the previous harvest.
Here is my Mom with Gandalf. Gandalf is Matthew and Ashley's cat and is very playful and loving. As Ashley is expecting right now, Felipe was fostering Gandalf for them.
He then switched apartments and could not have him anymore. Maria then had Gandalf and boy, did he love running after Alexander and Greyson. But Maria and Travis invited another couple to live with them for a time. The other lady is expecting as well, so Gandalf came to us.
Then my niece, Abby came to visit and she is allergic to cats.
Watermelon and pineapple fruit basket that Rebeca made.
This summer, we have had watermelon, corn, tomatoes, new potatoes, and onions from our garden. We had several bushels of potatoes and have been eating really yummy foods. I have madeGuatemalan New Potatoes
several times...Sunday, I made them with Cheddar Cheese soup in a roaster pan.
We have made them with other vegetables, with meat, with eggs...whatever.
We also had a family that gave us a couple of bushels of peaches. I stayed up till 1:00am and canned them (well.
This is the entrance to the vegetable garden. The vines are grapes. The trees are pear, plum, nectarine, peach, and apple.
We have two families of geese this year on the lake.
Fito is in the process of building a zip-line. He had it working but it broke...he will have to re-do it and make it stronger.
Below is my front flower garden.
Some yummy stuff from our garden.
The tomato and pepper plants. Hopefully, we will have a great year so I can make lots of salsa.
This garden and steps were a horrible mess. We redid them and they came out much better. I also made the herb gardens around the patio larger to accommodate more plants.
May was super hot. Most days in the 90s and some reaching 100 degrees. now July has been in the 80s. We even have had a few nights going down to 64. Incredible weather.
I relaid some of the brick and Fito dug a small ditch on each side to carry away the water when it rains. So far, the ditch has worked really well.
Rebeca helped me most of the day.
goodness. It has been months since I have written anything at all.
How is it that someone can be that busy.
still am doing all the things I usually do; working a couple of days
a week, taking care of my mom, cooking, cleaning, making bread each
late winter, I had stopped making bread, as my mom had burned her
feet and I was spending so much time with her. But I have found that
when I don't havesweet bread
, I tend to buy more sweets then gain
weight. Baking my own bread is healthier and keeps my sweet tooth at